As I peruse blogs and read other people’s books, I struggle daily with a list of shoulds. I should strike every “was” and adverb from my prose. I should enter every writing contest I can. I should build a huge web presence. I should come up with some brilliant ploy to drive rush-hour volume traffic to my blog.
Or should I? Let’s face it—my voice
wants to come out more conversational than literary. I’m not a contest person; words don’t
immediately drip from my fingers. In fact, for me, initial ideas are the
hardest part of being creative. I am not a daily blogger. Marketing
doesn’t come as naturally to me as breathing, the way it does for Shelli Johannes-Wells, and I haven’t been blindsided by any genius inspirations, like Casey McCormick’s Agent Spotlight.
I don’t think I can change these things.
Not easily. And the fact is, I shouldn’t. While the writing process
takes dedication and hard work, it should also be organic to who you
are. If you’re doing what you’re meant to be doing, the creativity will
flow. The work won’t seem like work, because your passion and talent
will carry you. All these people who I envy and admire aren’t finding
their success because they’re trying to be something they’re not.
They’re finding it because they’re following their true nature.
The philosophy of Taoism has a name for this: Wei wu wei,
“doing without doing”. If you can’t wrap your mind around that, think
of water, which is soft and weak, yet can wear away stone. A second
concept goes hand in hand with this: P’u, the Uncarved Block. P’u,
is a person’s natural state, their innate self, free of prejudices and
misconceptions. The idea is that things are most perfect in this state.
When you put these concepts together you come up with the following
philosophy: By being true to ourselves, rather than striving to be
something we’re not, things will come with less effort, and we will be
happier.
A lot of envy and self-doubt comes with
writing. Not just for the un-published crowd, but for established,
award-winning authors. These feelings are a fallacy. A time sink that
robs our creativity and distracts us from our work. We all have our
unique strengths, and that’s how it should be. Don’t allow yourself to
be distracted from your path by the glitter of someone else’s gifts.
Your own are just as dazzling.
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In addition to being a YA author, Lisa is a retired amateur stock car racer, an accomplished cat whisperer, and a professional smartass. She writes coming-of-age books about kids in hard luck situations who learn to appreciate their own value after finding mentors who love them for who they are. You can connect with her though her blog, The Tao or Webfoot, or buy her book, Running Wide Open, (currently FREE) at any major online retailer.
I adore this post. We all spend so much time trying to be what we think we should be. It's funny, we encourage our kids to be themselves, to go out and find something magical to do with their lives, something that fills them up. But we don't often give ourselves permission to the same thing in our writing. Like you, I'm not naturally inclined toward marketing. I love words though, adore language--phrases like your "the glitter of someone else's gifts" make my ears all warm and fuzzy. Now if I was only better at balancing scene and story. :D Thanks for the reminder this morning!
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Martina
Thanks, Martina. I'm glad I could give you a little inspiration. :)
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